Your Childhood Programming Is Your Source Code

When it comes to business, everyone talks about the front end—your offers, funnels, and content strategy.

But what about the source code running everything behind the scenes?

Your childhood programming.

How Your Childhood Shapes Your Business

The way you respond to conflict, the way you view money, the way you handle success—all of this is often programmed in your childhood.

For example:

• If you learned to avoid conflict, you might avoid sales calls, client negotiations, or asserting boundaries in your business.

• If money was a source of stress growing up, you might underprice your services, struggle to sell, or feel guilty about making money.

• If success brought jealousy or criticism, you might subconsciously sabotage your own growth, keeping yourself small to avoid standing out.

Because:

“What you don’t repair, you repeat.” - Me

For me, I realized through meditation and inner work that I had an unhealthy relationship with conflict.

Whenever I faced external or internal conflict, my default was to retreat.

Back to my room, back to South Africa, back to my comfort zone.

I had become so good at avoiding conflict that I had built an entire life around it.

And it showed up in my business:

• I avoided sales calls.

• I gave away too much for free.

• I created safe, vanilla content that wouldn’t trigger anyone.

My business was just a reflection of my avoidance and fear of conflict.

And until I did the inner work, it stayed that way.

Ask yourself:

• What patterns do you see in your business?

• How do these patterns relate to your childhood experiences?

• What do you need to repair so you stop repeating the same mistakes?

“If you don’t choose your vision, your fears will choose it for you.” - Me

If you need help getting clarity and systemizing your life, business and income so you build a business that makes money without you, then reply “Systemizer” and I’ll send you some more details.

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Chris “The Systemizer” Punt